Quote Originally Posted by ppr128 View Post
Indeed. And if I may expand on that, I've seen a certain mentality amongs new submissives, be they male or female, that they must obey any and all dom/mes and aren't allowed to have their own likes, dislikes, limits, and what-have-you.

Even thought my experience has been limited to online play and very few encounters in real time. I can totally agree with that statement. I am a bigheaded female, i am also very selfish, and stuborn and i complain alot, I MEAN alot. But I do like to please and i want to find someone to please, that doesnt mean that i want to forget about myself but i just want to make sure that i find someone that when i am around them. I feel the need to want to do what they ask, and not just do it because I dont want to be alone at the moment.
Being a newbie in this lifestyle with very limited real time experience, makes finding my limits hard since i have yet to have them explored but I still think being conscious of my surroundings and of the person i am playing with will help make things alot safer for the both of us.