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Among other things this requires that he creates an environment which is emotionally safe and in which her underlying character will be accepted, probably for the first time in her life. During this process, the bond between the submissive and her master becomes sufficiently strong that she can no longer break it herself, and she has then been enslaved.

This is so true. Actually it all read true to me and made tons of sense.

The emotional side of my submission to me is probably the most important part, becasue if it is not well taken care of by your Master it can hurt you badly. For a Master/Dom this is not a easy thing to do. If anything like me, i am quiet and keep things to myself so as not to bother him. Now, we have been working on this, my thoughts and things come out easier but with 31 years or being this way, it will take some time for me to be comfortable with myself in that aspect, in knowing i can tell him anything and everything and he not only wants to hear it but listens and makes me feel special about myself while i am doing it.

Basically he owns me completely, i am His, my submission is in his hands, 100% of the time. He not only has my body, he has my mind as well. I wouldn't change it for anything.I did not know this was what i was looking/needing when my journey started and i look forward to growing and keeping Him happy in the future.