And 13, as you can tell, you are going to get 100 different opinions if you ask 100 different people what "pet" means. A lot of it is about the context that you use the term in.

For instance:
"pet, could you bring me my drink?" Would generally be construed to most as pet being used in the "term of endearment" context.

Whereas:
"My pet bitch likes to be collared & caged and fed from a dog bowl. She's most happy on all fours serving me like the little dog bitch that she is." Might be more construed as someone into the kink of actual pet play.

It's all about the context of the term. Now, I think where a lot of the "confusion" gets people is when the "term of endearment" crosses over into actual pet play... which is something I think Oz was alluding to a bit... for instance, when a submissive may enjoy being leashed at her Dominant's feet, not for the hard-core kink of pet play, but more as a soft-kink of collar/leash play. Is that "pet play" or is that simply collar/leash play? It's whatever you wish to call it But if, in that context, you were to say, "this is my pet," you might get people w/varying opinions as to whether you meant to say "this is my pet" as in a term of endearment or as in pet-play.

Confused yet? LOL...

Simply put... any term or label has a million different interpretations. There is no "right or wrong" interpretation, per se, they are all just different ones in different contexts. The important thing is that everyone is respectful of everyone else's interpretations & opinions.

13, enjoy whatever label your Dominant uses, and enjoy your relationship