Very nicely put. Could not have said it better, so I won't try! I've always been eager to please, honor, and care for those I respect. It never seemed demeaning to me because they did not see it that way, either. However if someone I do .not. respect tries to demand much of anything at all s/he will likely have second thoughts about ever trying it again. That seems pretty common around here, though, and I love that!