I know I'm a relatively new member so it's quite possible I haven't the slightest clue what I'm talking about but.... if someone's rudeness crosses the line, shouldn't you just report it to a room mod regardless of whether or not they are owned or not or submissive or not? I shouldn't like to think that Dom/mes would be allowed to be rude either.... but anyway, if someone doesn't like the tenor of the lobby, couldn't that person just create their own room with whatever "rules" they liked?