I love hearing someone say my name, either zesty or my real name. There's also the tone of voice, the intentions behind what he is saying either for my own good or to show me something I may not have known already. When I am attracted it seems hard for me to find that inner submissive because I can't say I am a "twue" submissive or "naturally" submissive it takes work hard work on my part and patients on my partners behalf. I do lead a very dominant style lifestyle so knowing when to shift that off button on the "bitch in charge" is hard!