This is a much discussed topic.

Most will tell you that your feminist viewpoint actually liberates you to make the choice to submit and is empowering.

It's no different imo, than a type-A male-leader-of-industry who needs to submit in the bedroom as a balance to the stress of always having to decide, always having to excel, always having to achieve.

It's just that being a feminist AND a submissive "appears" to be a discontinuity. I say, more power to you. (Figuratively speaking of course... more power to whomever you cede it to. )