Let's remember that YKINMK, OK? I happen to have had fantasies all my life about orgasm denial and control of my sexual experiences. I have no interest at all in forced orgasms. I'm fortunate to have a master whose desire for control manifests itself partially in orgasm denial. Has he ever made me wait anything like a month? No, because I couldn't take it and he knows that. I believe he had another partner, though, before he met me who was able to be denied for much longer, so he did.

Just because you don't like OD yourself, don't fool yourself into thinking that subs who are denied are victims. You get what you sign up for.