BDSM exploration vs Pregnancy safety

[munajadida]

If he's truly terrified about continuing on with sex if/when you become pregnant, perhaps it's best to have him come with you to a doctor's visit and speak to your ob/gyn about his concerns...I'm sure your doctor will be more than happy to put his fears to rest. Once he's more comfortable with that aspect, then maybe you could try incorporating small things here and there but honestly, I have to agree with prior replies stating it's mostly mental....it really is.

Good luck to you!

We won't be seeing an Ob/Gyn (I'm birthing at home) but I'm sure by the time I actually manage to get knocked up I'll be able to convince him that it's ok. That or I'll go down on him until his brain is mush and he does whatever I tell him to. Sometimes the sub's gotta take a bit of control.

[Masters_kitty]

We won't be seeing an Ob/Gyn (I'm birthing at home) but I'm sure by the time I actually manage to get knocked up I'll be able to convince him that it's ok. That or I'll go down on him until his brain is mush and he does whatever I tell him to. Sometimes the sub's gotta take a bit of control.

Even if you're just doing a home birth, you should still be seeing a doctor or midwife as you go along to make sure your pregnancy is progressing in a healthy manner. Otherwise, risk factors may arise that you never foresaw, and your home birth may quickly lead to a serious emergency. Please at least go in for check-ins to make sure you are carrying well and not facing any serious complications. (Sorry, I'm from a family of nurses, I'll get off my soap box now.) Anyways, when you see any of those doctors, have them explain to your husband about the risks and benefits of sex during pregnancy. Or, if you are seriously anti-doctors, pick up a few pregnancy books. Sex during pregnancy can be a very healthy thing, and some couples use it late in the pregnancy to induce labor.