Quote Originally Posted by munajadida View Post
We won't be seeing an Ob/Gyn (I'm birthing at home) but I'm sure by the time I actually manage to get knocked up I'll be able to convince him that it's ok. That or I'll go down on him until his brain is mush and he does whatever I tell him to. Sometimes the sub's gotta take a bit of control.
Even if you're just doing a home birth, you should still be seeing a doctor or midwife as you go along to make sure your pregnancy is progressing in a healthy manner. Otherwise, risk factors may arise that you never foresaw, and your home birth may quickly lead to a serious emergency. Please at least go in for check-ins to make sure you are carrying well and not facing any serious complications. (Sorry, I'm from a family of nurses, I'll get off my soap box now.) Anyways, when you see any of those doctors, have them explain to your husband about the risks and benefits of sex during pregnancy. Or, if you are seriously anti-doctors, pick up a few pregnancy books. Sex during pregnancy can be a very healthy thing, and some couples use it late in the pregnancy to induce labor.