Hi Saheli
Welcome to the Library!
Believe it or not but lots of guys have issues with that very thing. I once had a young new dominant break down and cry after one rather intense session becuase he felt so bad about what he was doing. Fortunately as with a little education and a changing of his perspective just a little bit he turned out fine over time. I mean he is after all in a way giving you what you want right? Just as you are giving him what he wants. Its quite a common thing in my experience(a lot of vanila husbands that convert to bdsm can get mired in the misconseptions surrounding feminist/politically correct dogma and expected double standard morals of treating a woman as an equal etc etc.
There are also a lot of members here who have to work their "kink" in around their jobs, children and or other family members. But there is hope, lol...even 24/7 TPE is possible if one just uses some common sence, patience and creativity.
Allways feel free to ask if you ever need any assistance and have fun exploring the place.
I hope that both you and your husband will enjoy yourselves here as you learn and grow together on your journey of domination and submission.