I have thought about this question a lot lately. I think I have it finally figured out.


I have been thinking back to when I first started dating and even before then. I was looking for clues that I was submissive. I think under the surface I have always been like this, however due to how I was raised and being an independent smart assed " no man will tell me what to do" type. I never gave it much thought.

I have been married for going on 12 years. We have been though a lot together as any couple has who has been together this long. We met in high school and married right after graduation.

I finally realized that though everything, even though we just recently found out about this life style, and that it is for us, that all this time my husband has always been my Master. He has always been there fore me, he has always been a teacher, a friend, a lover, partner in crime, what ever I needed, he has provided it. So, it just seems natural now that we are on this path. It feels natural because we have always been headed in this direction, we just finally got the map.

Master brings out the submissive in me, always, and forever.