I agree with the concepts laid out here. We are talking about relationships here. They are living things. They need to nurtured, fed, and attended to or they erode, degrade, and fall apart. I believe each relationship is unique and has it's own dynamic. A Dom can have a certain style, but different subs require different techniques/approaches/motivation. You can tell an artist's style in his work, but each piece is unique and to be appreciated on it's own. Even different scenes can go different directions. Sometimes you carve your vision out of stone, other times you paint with oils. You experiment and explore the options attempting to find the best mixture to create a masterpiece.

To each his own. We should always strive to grow and expand our minds and experiences.