Quote Originally Posted by steelish View Post
Turn it on and off? No.

However, there are times when I don't feel submissive...usually when I am around people from whom I do not get a dominant "vibe" from. When I am with people who are submissive themselves, even in vanilla situations, I feel/react as a dominant. Go figure.
This is pretty close for me. I don't like stepping in to that more dominant role (it irritates the fuck out of me and is very uncomfortable), but if no one else steps up, I will.