I love sensory deprivation as a play tool – very simply it heightens expectancy, greatly increases dependency, and focuses and amplifies any sensation which is given.

But as a punishment tool – no way. And for the same reason. 15 minutes of normal corner time knowing his disapproval is enough to leave me feeling broken. Multiply that intensity and I think it could be both seriously damaging to myself and disastrous to our relationship. I would feel so completely abandoned by him in his disapproval of me (even knowing that I had not been physically abandoned) that it would soon cross that critical point and I am unsure that it would be possible to ever fully return.


Quote Originally Posted by MrDom
Then make a tape as long as you want saying how bad she is and how much you care and playing it .

Please, no, no, no and I plead no. Filling a sub’s head in such a way with even partial negative thoughts at such a vulnerable time could take years of counseling to recover from, if the root cause was ever discovered.

cariad.