Quote Originally Posted by steelish View Post
Turn it on and off? No.

However, there are times when I don't feel submissive...usually when I am around people from whom I do not get a dominant "vibe" from. When I am with people who are submissive themselves, even in vanilla situations, I feel/react as a dominant. Go figure.
A hormonal thing, no doubt. Have any ladies experienced a certain monthly cycle to the sensation to want to be dominant or submissive? It may be related to the presence or absence of testosterone. But for me, it's always there, though subject to control, it is inside of me, and always wanting to be let out.