Twice well spoke by denuseri! Orgasms have many different levels and intensities, as many as 8 levels with observable manifestations!

The biggest impediment is trust. Technical applications although important is farther down the list! Play should be empowering to both! Trust.

Ps, We have 10 pads with wet absorbing cotton
on one side and plastic on the other side. Look in the senior section of your pharmacy. We can go through 3 or 4 in one hour. Save the bedding!