I'm female, 42, pic can be seen in yahoo profiles (dancingscorpion), cos I don't know how to handle uploading pics here yet.

I met and fell in love online (long story) and we're in our 7th year together, most happily. I "discovered" in our 3rd year that there were names for the things I'd felt and daydreamed about all my life. It took us most of the next 3 years or so to get past the differences in "labels" some of those names brought up. It amazed me how "dominant" could be one thing to me, and a whole different bag of tricks to him!

I've been reading the stories here for a long time and only just realized I might actually be able to register and speak with others! Guess I was too caught up in the stories !

Anyway, that's a teensy-weensy bit about me. For more, just ask.