There is a time where someone wants a deeper relationship. And you, Sir, are looking for just that. It's a hard thing for someone, especially a submissive to face his/her fears and deal with his/her past problems. My own haunted me for years before I was able to face them and tear down the cinder-block walls. One does not have to be cold and non-endearing to be a true Master. You're looking for a 'real' person who is true to not only you but themselves. We do exist, sir. I assure you of that.