I was actually introduced to bdsm by a gorean slavegirl and you are partially correct my early experiences were pleasure based, Gor themed, I was part of a homestone on yahoo in the old days of user created rooms. Ths was a very good experience but one where the views of the slaves were not really addressed, free women in Gor were almost universally very good compamy though but i didnt really want a FW for a partner, I found that groean kajira usually are excellent at pleasing and serving but lack original thought for the most part. not all mind you but a lot. i moved away from Gor to mainstream becuase i wanted a nore ballanced experience but truth be told if one were to find a true Gorean kajira who is also an independent thinker and has a strong sense of self worth that would quite possibly be heaven on earth heh.