I think you made it just fine Kitty, I am more of an oozer than a squirter myself.

My only consern as a side bar (and this is nothing against anyone's dom); is that a dominant gets it into his head that it is somthing that has to occur, there are too many physiological variables involved (just like with cumming on command) to have this set as a kind of condition or something where one has been considered to have failed a task from one's dominant if they do not achieve it.

thir I apologize if I have somehow miscommunicated with you somehow. I have not intended for anyone to have read in my words anything that is being taken in the way you have taken it, I dont expect people to read between the lines with anything that I post on the site. I was only reporting upon what I found while reaserching the subject.