I recently joined this community and ran across your post from 4 weeks ago. First, I wanted to offer you both my best wishes as you travel through this new stage in your relationship. While I know you must take life day by day, no one knows what the future holds. I've learned that life can turn on a dime and surprise you at every turn. I also wanted to check to see that you are ok since it's been a month. From the responses I see to your post, I can see there are many people who care about you. Please count me among them...