Hi,

i've always know, but not always accepted, that i'm submissive. i've been with my husband for 10 years but only recently told Him of my interest in BDSM, luckily he felt the same way!

the only small problem is with Him getting used to the fact that its ok to do what He does to me.

we're both learning from square one and have both done the checklist mentioned on this site and its helped us tremendously.