I to can flood/squirt. It is a totally different feelling. It can be learned, for I just recently learned to do. You have to have some control of the muscles, I still do not do it everytime. I had never done it then a friend got me to alittle. Then after that my friend has been able to accomplish it many times. I have also learned to do it myself.

One way that can help to get you to squirt, if they are fingering you when they begin to feel you tighten to cum, have them move their fingers from side to side sorta fast. When they do this you can't tighten those muscles and it lets it just go.

Once I do this so many times, I will start to tighten up when I cum to where I can not control what happens, but by then everything is soaked.