Like Puppy Love

[Ozme52]

Not merely those overwhelming (because never before experienced) feelings for that first dominant in your life, your first consensual beating, your first consensual rough play or humiliation or just the "permission" to relax and be at ease with your sexuality...

But also that whole concept of New Relationship Energy (NRE) which comes to you with every new person you meet, and even moreso every new dominant with whom you might potentially play or have a relationship.

And these aren't additive feelings... they're multipliers. So that first dom combined with all the other firsts... can indeed be overwhelming... and also devastating when, as most firsts do, they end.

Thank you so much. I realize this was a very broad question that was probably poorly worded, but you gave me the answer I was looking for. I really appreciate your insight. I wonder whether there is a correlation between the number of variables in a situation and the duration of the puppy-love type excitement of a new situation: it seems to make sense that the more variables there are, the more opportunities for excitement exist...the more opportunity for excitement, the more prolonged the newness. What do you think?

Definitely.

[StormKat]

Not merely those overwhelming (because never before experienced) feelings for that first dominant in your life, your first consensual beating, your first consensual rough play or humiliation or just the "permission" to relax and be at ease with your sexuality...

And these aren't additive feelings... they're multipliers. So that first dom combined with all the other firsts... can indeed be overwhelming... and also devastating when, as most firsts do, they end.

All too true...