I'm a woman and I to have to dominate men and be sub to woman. The only exception to this is my huaband.
I'm a woman and I to have to dominate men and be sub to woman. The only exception to this is my huaband.
i thought this was an interesting thread. i do not consider myself a switch, i am a slave, so not sure if my opinion counts! lol i find myself more submissive to men in generally and more aggressive to women. There have been a few women that i naturally feel more submissive to and there have been some men that for lack of a better term, i want to torture them! LOL This has been mostly in vanilla relationships, though.i just thought i would throw my 2 cents in.
bluefarie, happily owned and engaged to Master Archeon
I have a hard time domming a male. I would rather kneel at his feet, but alot of guys are intimidated by me =/ I'm really not that scary ... >=3
On the opposite spectrum, I have a very hard time being dommed by a chick.. I just can't take her seriously. I would rather see the girl kissing my feet or tied to my bed.
I think that, even with us switches, we draw a line as to who gets which side to keep that balance. Of course, there would be exceptions to every rule, but for the most part, I think it is a way for us to stay organized.
Alot of people think that switches will be a sub and suddenly turn dom in the same session. I can't speak for everyone, but I know I am not like that. I like a clear cut relationship, because otherwise, you can't enjoy that role fully.
You may tame the Tiger, but only when It choses to be tame...
"Then imitate the action of the tiger:
Stiffen the sinews, summon up the blood,
Then lend the eye a terrible aspect;
Now set the teeth, and stretch the nostril wide,
Hold hard the breath, and bend up every spirit
To [her] full height!" - Henry V William Shakespeare
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