This is new to me as well. I had this sit up on my computer - which is hooked up to my very large tv screen. My youngest son (24) came in one morning unexpectedly. I was out smoking in the garage. We chatted for a minute and he walked into the house before me. He was already in the kitchen (tv is very viewable from there) when I realized. I yelped and came scrambling in trying to distract him (I have to admit, this was hardly a well thought out strategy). I have no idea whether he saw it or not. It wasn't just about the BDSM bit though. I have never wanted to sexualize myself in front of them. Like another poster aid above, ewww.

I will need to figure out strategies - just in case. It isn't that I wasn't sexual before, as I have always been, but instead I had rarely had my sexual slant blaring off of the tv in the middle of the house.