Hello,

My name is Cole and I’m a 24 year old dominant male.

I have been looking for a submissive for quite some time now and met some wonderful people during my search. Unfortunately, I have not met someone who I click or connect with enough to make a go at an actual relationship where power is exchanged willingly between boy and girl. I want that relationship.

I want to make it perfectly clear who I’m not. I am not rude. I will not expect you to submit to me simply because I have a capital D in my “BDSM Role” box. I am not a jerk.

I am a gentleman. I am kind. I am caring. I am looking for a relationship, not a one night stand.

Me
I’m smart. Not math smart, but witty smart. I’m intuitive the way a psychologist is intuitive. I love to look at people and examine their desires and motives. I love to understand how people work. I’m like an amateur mental engineer. I also love to understand and examine myself in much the same way I examine other people. EVERYTHING people say has subtleties and connotations to be interpreted. It’s fun to decode the full spectrum of human communication.

I love telling stories. When I feel comfortable with you or your friends it will be hard to get me to shut up. I love talking about the things I’m doing or did, especially if they’re funny. I love getting a laugh, even if it’s cheap or cheesy, wait, especially if it’s cheesy. An awesome girl would love to just drive with me so I can talk and work out some of my ideas. Believe me, I have lots of them.

I suppose you’re wondering what my d/s personality is like. Well, there isn’t one until there’s trust. It takes a lot of trust for me to accept any power you may or may not choose to surrender to me. Believe me, I realize how much of a responsibility it can be to be in charge of caring for and protecting a submissive. It’s something I take very seriously.

I do like many things, among them protocol, rules, nipple / breast play, spanking, hair pulling, and about a thousand other things. My thoughts are that the d/s part of the relationship will probably fall in to place if we have a solid connection going. Feel free to ask me any questions you may have about my sexual interests or how I would conduct myself in a d/s relationship.

I know I have to be speaking somebody’s language here. I know I have to be. If you are in the Southern California, preferably Los Angeles area, please contact me. I’ve been waiting here for you.