Boot camp

[denuseri]

Just as there are those who portend to be Dominants who have in fact no idea what that entails Jaded. A fact that I am sure your more than aware of.

I am also wondering just where in the above is it "testing" the dominant at any point Arch? You present this as boot camp for two, yet I only see one out of the two being discussed.

It also sounds like you expect this training scenario to be carried out partially or entirely via online communication for some strange reason...am I correct in that?

[Archeon]

Just as there are those who portend to be Dominants who have in fact no idea what that entails Jaded. A fact that I am sure your more than aware of.

I am also wondering just where in the above is it "testing" the dominant at any point Arch? You present this as boot camp for two, yet I only see one out of the two being discussed.

It also sounds like you expect this training scenario to be carried out partially or entirely via online communication for some strange reason...am I correct in that?

Thanks for the comments denu,

The test for the dominant is to watch the person he loves endure this in his name, to watch them suffer. This is not an easy task in itself.

In terms of writing from the online prospective, at the time blue went through this, we were separated and interacting online, however the principle would remain the same if you lived together, or apart but it was a r/l only relationship.

Regards,

Arch

[13'sbadkitty]

just curious, how would this be modified when there are children present? Master and i have kids of varying ages when W/we began as a couple. W/we have had to modify everything as being parents comes first. i would like very much to be all the more trained, but kids do changed everything. W/we can't always address things as they happen, and it would be impossible for me to live as you outlined. Ideas?

[AnticipatingPain]

[QUOTE=Archeon;858309

In terms of writing from the online prospective, at the time blue went through this, we were separated and interacting online, however the principle would remain the same if you lived together, or apart but it was a r/l only relationship.

Regards,

Arch[/QUOTE]

I presume not to judge anybody or what anyone does in their own exploration of the lifestyle. Although having said that one thing doesn't sit easily with me (and that fact that it's been posted on an open forum, it's now open for debate & differing opinions.) Am I right is saying that you & blue were apart when she went through this process? Only interacting online? If as I think; she was alone, who was around to watch over her? Had the whole 'bootcamp' became emotionally too much for her, who was there physically to pick up the pieces? I am pleased it worked out for the two of you, but my concern is others may not be so lucky and could end up emotionally scarred from not having the proper supervision.

Just my opinions.