[QUOTE=Archeon;858309

In terms of writing from the online prospective, at the time blue went through this, we were separated and interacting online, however the principle would remain the same if you lived together, or apart but it was a r/l only relationship.

Regards,

Arch[/QUOTE]

I presume not to judge anybody or what anyone does in their own exploration of the lifestyle. Although having said that one thing doesn't sit easily with me (and that fact that it's been posted on an open forum, it's now open for debate & differing opinions.) Am I right is saying that you & blue were apart when she went through this process? Only interacting online? If as I think; she was alone, who was around to watch over her? Had the whole 'bootcamp' became emotionally too much for her, who was there physically to pick up the pieces? I am pleased it worked out for the two of you, but my concern is others may not be so lucky and could end up emotionally scarred from not having the proper supervision.

Just my opinions.