nibbles the way you told that story was hysterical.
13's bad kitty: I think it's adorable that he was so very concerned for your safety that he got so upset when you were hurt! So many Doms are so very rough and sometimes I think people forget that we love our little ones so very much. So precious! I can understand how he would have a hard time forgiving himself if you got hurt my mistake. Your sub trusts you completely to protect them and then you fail! Oh, the guilt! I am sadly not a graceful person and now and then my elbow will hit his poor little face and I freak out and I'm wishing I had a safe word and he's begging me that it's okay, he's fine, please don't stop! So tell your Dom it's alright, we all make mistakes, and that if you tell him you're okay and not upset, he needs to trust you that is true.