Good advice fetish.

And add to that, patience. I spent 2 years posting before anyone began to show any willingness to meet in the flesh. And there are far more submissives in the population than dominants, and even moreso if you are mostly interested in dommes (mistresses).

So show off your intelligence, good intentions, opine a bit, servile can come later and should be primarily based on what the dominant wants from you...

Being too adamant about what you want in a dominant will limit your choices further... and you may miss out on opportunities to learn aspects of the lifestyle you may currently know nothing about firsthand. (Not that you were indicating such... just general advice for all who happen across this thread.)

Good luck.