Secretary?

[denuseri]

Thanks for all the responses! I'm still a little confused as to what you mean by "topping from the bottom." Could you please explain?

You will find I am sure that there are a thousand different subjective points of view as to exactly what constitutes "topping from the bottom".

For some it’s highly controversial as to weather or not it should truly exist at all in the first place as a derogatory lifestyle terminology since in most definitions it describes a perfectly natural behavior in all dominance related power exchange hierarchies Bdsm, Vanilla or otherwise.

Truth be told it’s been my experience that for the most part in real life I've only heard it used if at all as a passive aggressive complaint of those would be dominats who are either inexperienced to begin with and or insecure and easily threatened by the slightest "perceived" challenge to their would be authority or dominion.