I thought the film was both excellent and disturbing

It was excellent in its portrayal of a 'love/BDSM' story. I think it clearly showed what we can achieve being it dysfunctional or perfect who can saw what the perfect life is for someone else

But it was disturbing in showing her need to abuse herself. The cutting scenes were upsetting particularly when we saw that one of the objects in her box was a statuette of a ballerina. Something every little girl has, it made me believe she had been cutting herself ever since she was little

As possibly a disturbing question; how many people in BDSM, both subs and Masters, abuse themselves?
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