i'm a bit of an example of what is possible with time and patience and training.

When i started to tell partners about my kinkier side, they would often be horrified or call me a freak. i was in an abusive relationship for 2 years in which my 'Dom' made me accept his 'punishments' because he believed that it was what i wanted and deserved.

i hated my kinky self. i hated my desires, i hated the way my mind worked.

Pretty much right up until i found this site. When i started here, i was able to interact with some actual Dominants, and They taught me that there was nothing wrong with my desire to serve. When i stated training under Master He focused me on accepting myself as i am.

Sometimes, i have bad days, and i wonder what made me like this, and how i can possibly get rid of it. Those days are getting less common now.

But most of the time, when i wonder what made me like this, i know that it has made me the happiest i've been in my life, and that i couldn't live any other way.