Now i can see things more clearly. Thank you, really thank you very much. I am seeing more things now than before i read your comments. I tried the first time w her, a few months ago, in Dec/09, i just came w a bag which content she didnt see. I put a blindfold and the told her to satand still w her hands in the back of her neck, and i started to check every part of her anatomy. And told her to keep still, and slowly indressed her totally. Then i started to introduce one and then 2 fingers in her. Every time she moved, i spank her, harder every time. She was dripping. Then i told her to be on her knees, without letting her change the position of her hands and told her: Open ur mouth and pull out ur tongue. Then i let her ear my zipper, and put my penis in her mouth. I made all the moves, i told her not to move, just keep the mouth open. When i was readt y told her to stnd up and bend over and i fuked her from behind. Which was a little difficult because she is taller than me. (5 inches more). I told her to ask me if she could came, and she did. I let her this time. I pull out and came on her bottom. But as i told u before, all this last only until she comes. Then she doesnt want to know anything about sex. ??????? I can do this sort of things, only if she is horny. After sex, she in the same boosy woman, w a lot of friends, male friends. And we had a lot of fight because she is still seein at least 2 of her former boyfriends. Even that she promised not to, I one day saw her yahoo mail because she didnt close the sesion properly and I find out that she was seeing one of them. And he made sex comments on her email. making jokes of her as if she was s hooker. And she wrote that she found that very funny. I was shoked. I told her about this, and she didnt deny it, in fact she told me she will continue seiing him even though it was the one thing i asked her to stop doing and she had agreed. She lied to me. W this i want to tell u that she will never obey me in any thing, exept when she is aroused. The highest that we reach is that now she keep my crop and she sugests that i use it on her. so i hit her w the crop, everytime harder. Last time i made light strips on her. So now that u have a better picture of our relation, i ask u the same question. Is she? O will she ever be into BDSM all the time? What cani do to tame her? Or is it a lost cause?