Male submissives

[Dryhill]

Oh god I hope not.

It has taken me most of my 60 years to realise that i am submisive and that there are others like me. It has taken me several years (since I learnt that it was ok to be submissive) to find the courage to start looking for a Mistress. So I hope real play can be as good as fantasies.

[IAN 2411]

Oh god I hope not.

It has taken me most of my 60 years to realise that i am submisive and that there are others like me. It has taken me several years (since I learnt that it was ok to be submissive) to find the courage to start looking for a Mistress. So I hope real play can be as good as fantasies.

Be very sure of what you are looking for, because there is more to being a male submissive than having a Mistress to worship. Loyalty, respect and devotion are all factors, but before you get even close to all those there has to be buckets full of trust travelling both ways. You might in the end find that your fantasies are nothing like the real deal, you might even find that you are not as submissive as you first thought, but there is no harm in pursuing a dream, as long as your expectations are not greater than reality.

Regards ian 2411

[Dryhill]

I think my submissive nature and trying to copy my fathers dominent role in his marriage was what led to my marriage breaking down.
I married someone with a stronger character than me but constantly tried to be "head of the marriage/family". Of course this led to disharmony. When I started to let my wife take the lead I felt happier with life but by then too much harm had been done to our relationship.