I disagree. I don't think it's that complicated. I can be both, depending on who I'm doing this with..If they like to be controlled...Then I can be the meanest bitch there is, but if they like to controll, I can also be a submissive slave. I prefer to be sub, but if Im asked to be domme...I just picture how I would like my domme to be, and that works for me. But, Im new to this....So who knows.