Quote Originally Posted by alleykat View Post
My looks are important to me. I keep myself well groomed, in shape and stylishly dressed. I consider myself to have a beautiful and captivating personality and i see no reason that that shouldn't be displayed outwardly. Keeping those views of myself in mind i want my Dom to feel the same way about himself.
I have to agree with this one. Speaking aside from the purely sexual point of view, it is difficult for me to understand why a submissive would want a dom who can't take care of himself. If the dominant is unable to control his appearance then I'm not sure how he would be at all suitable for taking control of a person. But maybe my stance is a little skewed as I'm content about my looks.