Do Looks Matter for a Master?

[clarity25]

Am I wrong, but don't looks matter to most people, regardless of whether they're BDSM or vanilla? And aren't Dom/mes just as particular when it comes to the appearance of their submissives?

[openyoureyes]

Am I wrong, but don't looks matter to most people, regardless of whether they're BDSM or vanilla? And aren't Dom/mes just as particular when it comes to the appearance of their submissives?

I would definitely agree with this. To be in a relationship with anyone there has to be a level of attraction. This is pretty universal whether you're BDSM or vanilla. However, not all subs will be attracted to the same type of guy. I don't think specifically that he has to look the part of Dom for there to be that level of attraction. I would go so far as to say the 'nice guys' will surprise you more when they assert their dominance and can get more of a reaction/response, at least initially.

[brwneydgirl]

I would definitely agree with this. To be in a relationship with anyone there has to be a level of attraction. This is pretty universal whether you're BDSM or vanilla. However, not all subs will be attracted to the same type of guy. I don't think specifically that he has to look the part of Dom for there to be that level of attraction.

I completely agree. It's a broad question..."Do looks matter?" Of course they do...(and anyone who says different is kidding themselves). This is not to say that we all find the exact same traits attractive. Some look for tall partners, some short, some fat, some thin, some with a full head of hair, some prefer bald...whatever creams your twinkie. And honestly, with a personal connection and mutual "intense like" of one another, the way someone looks can take a backseat.

But to say that looks don't matter is ...unrealistic.