Squirting is thankfully very real and I actually didn't realize until the past couple of months that not only can I do so, I have many times before but just didn't know it.

I became sexually active at 16 but due to a psychological block I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 19. But the really good orgasms didn't come until after I had my daughter. I think that's because pregnancy helped me to really tune into my body and when you know your body well, good sex usually follows.

But the squirting or gushing orgasm was still very tricky for me to come by. At first I could only have them during intercourse when I was on top and with a LOT of clitoral stimulation. Usually I would tire out before I even came close to gushing. But oh my Goddess, I don't think I'll ever forget the first time I did. It felt as though the entire lower half of my body just plain melted. I've been addicted ever since.

In my attempts to produce more squirting and gushing (yes, I have done both though not at the same time) I have noticed a few consistencies for me.
I have to have clitoral stimulation. Period. I have to successfully squirt or gush without it, and trust me, I've tried.

I have to hold out for it. I guess the easiest way to describe it would be that I can't allow myself to orgasm, I have to wait until it just takes me. It's quite a mental and physical struggle to do so, especially the physical. As I get closer to climaxing my vaginal muscles go a little insane, no really. I've sent dildos flying a foot before and honestly, it's really hard to orgasm after that.

I've also noticed that the most impressive squirting orgasms I've had are typically when using my rabbit vibrator. Especially in combination with a clit clamp.

Anyway, that's what works for me that I've discovered thus far and I'm certainly open to any advice.