Ideas for Domme with disabled Sub?

[tina2008]

tina2008: I think I can say I understand where your Dom is coming from -- it's extremely important to Me not to cause harm to My Pet. That defeats the purpose of being her protector and advocate and her Mistress. "Mistress" or "Master" to Me implies that you are taking on the responsibility of another human being's welfare and happiness, and as such you should never put them in a position that could be harmful in the short or long run (even if they ask). I'm glad to hear that you're lucky enough to be with a Dom who understands your needs. It always makes Me happy to hear about people with illnesses/injuries/disabilities being accepted into relationships (sexual and otherwise) as real people with needs and desires, because so often W/we objectify such people and make them somehow asexual and alien, which is totally and utterly unfair and wrong.

What you've written is just....awesome; sorry, I couldn't think of another word. When I found out about D/s relationships, that submissive spark within quickly turned into a flame. I was somewhat surprised that BDSM and D/s was closely entwined. Because of my physical limitations and the fact that I'm more D/s oriented than BDSM, I knew I'd have a difficult time finding a Dom. Thankfully, I wasn't in a rush....well, of course I wanted a Dom, but one that would take my issues into consideration.

Although my nerve damage isn't visible, even minor things, for instance, kneeling for longer than perhaps 5 minutes is difficult and painful (and not a good pain either). I also encountered quite a few Doms with a high heel fetish. I was crushed that I could no longer wear heels; on the other hand, I was thankful to regain the ability to walk. So, when I was told I wasn't submissive enough because I wouldn't even attempt to wear heels to prove that my issues were real, I simply smiled and moved on. However, my search for a good, understanding Dom wasn't lengthy....

Thankfully, I met Sir, who was very knowledeagble about my illness as unfortunately, his ex father in law passed away due to complications from the same syndrome. We met online and in person within one week. We've been together since (almost 2 1/2 years). I can honestly say He has never made me feel like I'm lacking in any area and He's seen me at my worse. I'm so glad love is blind. ~grin

Okay, my post is turning into a long story. It's wonderful when Dom/mes treat those with illnesses, limitations, etc., like humans with normal human needs/emotions/feelings. Your Pet is very lucky to have you.