Well, petdoll...you asked for opinions...you wanted to know what we all thought about your original post. What denuseri is trying to warn you against is a perfectly legitimate issue. I'm sure we can all breathe a sigh of relief that "Your Man" knows all about the safety issues involved but perhaps others forum readers might not.
Perhaps next time you wish to share your excitement about something new you and your man are trying, blog about it instead of opening yourself up to forum replies and warnings.
Good luck to you...sounds like you'll need it.