Petdoll, people are warning you because they care about you, honey. BDSM practiced the wrong way can be dangerous. Even vanilla sex practiced the wrong way can be dangerous because of diseases you may catch. Nobody's telling you that you can't enjoy your weekend with your Sir; we're just looking out for you so that you practice it in a safe way so that you don't get hurt.

Yes, you can get hurt. You can get sick. Some of us have seen that happen to others, and trust me, getting sick or injured takes all the fun away. We're not telling you to not do this, we're just telling you to be careful and get all the facts before you do something so you can do it safely.