Humiliation ideas and other stuff

[nawteeone]

First off,,,just wondering why he isnt the one here asking the questions...isnt it going to ruin it for you to know what he is planning ahead of time?

LOL, maybe she's like me and likes to have a certain amount of control as a sub. Not to mention that knowing exactly what's coming and squirming while you wait for it sometimes proves to be hotter than the act itself. M often puts it on me to come up with punishments/humiliation. Part of it I think is that he runs out of ideas (we've been going at this for 10 years now) and the other is he knows I like to have a say in things. What can I say? I'm a conflicted sort.

Oh, and thick, knobby carrots work just fine too.