Saying No

[learninggirlie]

"Would it be alright, Sir, if you did not do that right now?" That gives you the opportunity to say how you feel, while still leaving the power in his hands whether it happens. That is just one suggestion I have; you have to work out with him what is best for you both.

This is proper wording that i have been looking for i think. Or something along those lines. Or Sir i dont wish to do that at the moment i am busy with other things. Something like that.

The situation that brought this all up happened a few times lately out of a scene. While in a scene i know that safe word is what i need to use to say no. My Master doesn't like the No means yes situation at all. So i avoid it and happy to do so. But outside of a scene when i use the word no He doesn't punish me but He does pause and says what did you say to me. And i can tell it’s not something He likes. So after a few times of this i said that i should post on the forums round about ways of saying no so that it doesn't upset you. And He says to go ahead and ask see what response i get.

But after reading the first two peoples responses i am kind of inclined to think that i might be just bringing up the No matter while out of a seen to gloat Him on. Kind of like asking for anger to hopefully get restrictions put in place for outside of scene.

Grrr not sure if i am saying this right, i am horrible with words. That’s why i am a reader not a writer. Does anyone know what i mean or even understand what i am trying to convey?

On one hand i would love to have something smooth to respond to Him instead of just no like Jennifer said but on the other hand i am wondering now if i am just trying to get His ire with the entire subject.

Good first question to ask on the forum huh?