Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer Williams View Post
It's fine to do something with your partner just for their sake; but maybe you would feel more fulfilled if in return, he did something that you like. What is it that you are seeking from him in bed? Do you get that from him? If there is something that you like and enjoy, ask him if he can do that for you in return, even if it's something that seems simple and small.
Yes! You're in a great position here, I think. He likes to be dominated, but that doesn't mean you have to break out the black leather & whips (though you might find down the road that you want to! ) just yet. What do YOU like? Give him a good spanking, then TELL him! He'll comply, and you'll both get what you need!

It is hard to get over that "it's wrong to hit" people thing. I had an ex who never, ever felt right doing it, even if i begged him. Look at his reaction...he clearly enjoys it, and it is NOT the same as hitting someone in anger, IMO. There's a huge difference.