Have an issue, would like advice

[Nikon {sin}]

My sub, sinful desires, has to ask for my approval each day for the clothes she will wear the next day. Sometimes I approve what she has requested and sometimes I make changes to what she will wear.

W/we are also in a situation where she can not frequently be nude in the house, so I have modified that and she is dressed in the house but may never wear shoes inside without my permission. she and I know what it means as she walks barefoot around the house, but no one else knows.

[submissive.unicorn]

Text messaging is a beautiful, beautiful thing. When my sub finds himself faced with a decision that he has rules about and I'm not there for him to defer to me, he texts me and waits for my answer, and there you go, instant control. You can even simply require her to update you on her status all day (like twitter but texting only to you), and the simple fact of you knowing what she's doing (while she doesn't know what you're doing) adds a feeling of her being controlled.

Beautiful idea. Perhaps a text on your way home telling her that her Master will be there shortly...prepare thyself.

I have modified that and she is dressed in the house but may never wear shoes inside without my permission. she and I know what it means as she walks barefoot around the house, but no one else knows.

Also fantastic. I would even add an anklet to accentuate the nude feet.