I am a people pleaser who do not want any conflict around me (for the most part). I kick myself most days at work because I am still to this day doing things that are totally nice to people who hate my guts and wish me fired. I figured that out when they keep reporting me to my boss and writing nasty things in the book about me, Yet I still clean up their messes and wash their dishes. Why? well it's not my job but it does make the time go by and it gets them to leave me alone for one more hour.

But Lately, last few years, I've learned to tell people (outside of work) to go do it themselves or I'll help them but I won't do it for them. It's really funny because the people I work for I am so not submissive to so one moment I'm kissing my co-workers asses and the next I'm doing some PT or projects to teach the people I work with how to do things for themselves. I find it rather enjoyable.

Anyway, I'm sorry if I got side tracked in that, I'm up way past my bedtime.

~RK~