Confused Newbie

[leo9]

I guess my question is this: How did you discover whether you are a dom(me), sub(slave) or a switch? Did you just know or did it take experimentation?

I definitely had to experiment, though by the time of my first real sexual relationship I had a pretty good idea that I'd rather be in charge. Some know for certain from day 1, some think they know and then find out differently, some try everything and like it all.

Try fantasies, try real life, what works is good.